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Pink Power Luncheon Highlight Video

Pink Power Luncheon Highlight Video

by Liz Benditt in Blogs

Written by Liz Benditt

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The 11th Annual Pink Power Luncheon, sponsored by Kansas State University and the Susan G. Komen foundation went virtual in 2020 due to COVID-19. Despite the virtual venue, the event had great participation featuring a wonderful combination of health care providers and breast cancer survivors.

The keynote speaker was Liz Benditt, a four-time cancer survivor, the president of Balm Box, and a lecturer for the KU School of Business. Ms. Benditt, a Komen Kansas & Western Missouri Woman of Action, gave the presentation, "The Finish Line is the Starting Line." She shared her inspirational story of going from cancer patient to "cancer-preneur" and demonstrated that the finish line does not have to be the end of the journey; it can represent a new beginning. 

Also presenting briefly were representatives of Kansas's Early Detection Works program.

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